Friday, August 26, 2011

Kiki

The man who has worked so hard for us to get our children home to us, is gone. We got late word tonight that our lawyer, Kiki was found dead in his home this morning. Nothing is easy in Haiti.

We have heard from one of the other adoptive parents that he was having terrible back pain all week and went to the doctor and had a shot in his back and was feeling better, but unfortunately for some reason, he passed away. This is the letter from our adoption agency and a notice posted by For His Glory Outreach. I don't know what else to say except we're in shock and our hearts grieve for the people at Maison.


Dear CCAI Haiti families,

Earlier today we received the sad and unexpected news that Kiki Alexis, the processor of adoptions for Maison des Enfants de Dieu orphanage in Haiti has passed away.  His departure from this life was sudden and unexpected and we are all very saddened at this news.

Kiki was the brother to the orphanage director Pierre and assistant Franckis, and played a vital role in all adoptions processed through Maison.  He will be missed greatly.

At this point in time we ask all our families to keep Kiki’s family and friends in their thoughts and prayers as they grieve the loss of their family member and friend.  We ask for your patience as we work with the orphanage to determine how in-process dossiers will be managed at this point in time, and in the future.  We are working closely with our friends at Maison and For His Glory Outreach to move forward with a plan for continuing to serve our families. We will pass along this information as soon as it is determined.

CCAI remains committed to all families in the adoption process, and is forever grateful to Kiki for all he’s done for Haiti’s beautiful children.

With heavy hearts,
CCAI Haiti Team
Patrick, Kim, and Judy


Dear Naomi,
Kiki Alexis
Jean Kuislin "Kiki" Alexis
It is with great sadness that we inform you our dear brother in the Lord, Jean Kuislin "Kiki" Alexis, has passed away and gone to be with the Lord. Matthew 18:5 tells us that "whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name, welcomes me." Kiki welcomed the Lord daily as he served the orphans in Haiti through Maison. Through his ministry and work with Maison, Kiki helped hundreds of children be united with their forever families and many more to have a safe place to live with food, water and medical care they would not have had otherwise. We are so thankful to have known Kiki and to have worked alongside him in the ministry the Lord had called him to.

Please be in prayer for his family and the staff and children at Maison during this difficult time. Since Kiki's life was poured out to serve the children through Maison, we ask that memorial gifts be sent through For His Glory with "Kiki Memorial" in the memo, and we will ensure that your gift is applied toward the continuation of his work.

If you are a family currently in the adoption process of a child at Maison, we will be notifying your agency as to the changes that will be made in who will be processing adoptions for Maison as soon as that can be determined. Thank you for your patience in this area.

Monday, August 22, 2011

Other things

I tried to keep my blog dedicated to adoption stuff so those who are interested in the process don't have to wade through stuff they don't really care about. But today I thought I would let you in on what we've been up to this summer. 

We really didn't have much of a summer as Stephen started a new job in a year-round school in Cedar Rapids. He is now the Instructional Coach at Polk Elementary just minutes from my office. I am loving the lesser drive time and he has enjoyed the new challenge. He's already been in session for a month or so. He will be getting an "intercession break" the last 2 weeks of September. His job as best as I can describe it is coaching teachers on new instructional initiatives the district wants implemented in the classroom. He still works with kids sometimes but typically in smaller groups. He is always doing something different and spends a lot of time emailing and coordinating different things. The nice thing about Polk is there are a lot of kids there who look more like Lydie and Samson. He's come home with some very cute stories and it's been a nice change for him to be in a more diverse building. 

A couple weeks ago my whole family got together to celebrate my mom's 60th birthday. It was definitely a highlight of the summer. My sister was able to fly home and surprise mom and spend a few days here which was a treat. Mom had nearly 4 days of one surprise after the next and I think by the end of it she was a little overwhelmed! We fished, got pedicures, had a campfire, talked, laughed, sang together, swam, ate and loved on our beautiful mama! It was so wonderful. I always have a hard time recovering after times like those. It's hard to get back to reality and the daily grind. It's times like those that you wish time would stand still for a little while. 

On Tuesday, August 16th, Stephen and I traveled to the Iowa State Fair with his parents so the Probert Farm could be honored as a Heritage Farm. This means the farm has been in the family for 150 years. It was a wonderful honor for the Proberts and I was so proud to be a part of it. Of course, when you go to the fair, you have to eat! And boy did we eat! 





At the end of June/first part of July Stephen and I took a vacation to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. We drove to Chicago and caught a Cubs game then drove up the eastern side of Lake Michigan to Mackinac Island. We discovered on our trip the most of our vacations have always been to visit family members and this was the first time we were actually just vacationing as just the two of us. We knew this may be the last chance before the kids come and that's okay! The weather was perfect and we had a great time together. It was a healing time for us as the last school year had been pretty rough on Stephen. He had also taken some classes after school had ended and this was the only time we had before he had to start at his new school. 








And of course, summer is never complete without volleyball. Every Thursday night we piled into the Reed van and  headed up to St. Lucas (one hour north of Independence) and played. On the last night of tournament play (we won our bracket!) Stephen's elbow caught my forehead and the bridge of my nose. For a split second I was afraid my nose had broken. Thankfully it wasn't and I didn't even get a black eye! 

It was a great summer. Our last summer of freedom so to speak! But we have had 14+ summers of just the two of us, time for a new chapter. I'm ready!

Friday, August 12, 2011

New pictures of Lydie & Samson

Stephen and I have been quite busy with family activities, volleyball tournaments and work. It's so nice to come home after a day of work and find new pictures and updates! Patrick took these pictures for us. This is what he said:


Hello! I hope that you are doing well and surviving the heat wave in Iowa. I have attached several pictures of your beautiful children. They are both doing well. Lydie has been transformed into a very active toddler since I last saw her. She was happy and very active. You will have your hands full to say the least.

Samson was also good. He’s looking a little rough after undergoing a bout of Mulluscum. However, please keep in mind that all children in orphanages get Mulluscum and it goes away in a matter of a couple of months. There are rarely any permanent discolorations or scarring from it. Both of my children had Mulluscum and they have no visible marks from it.