Monday, August 22, 2011

Other things

I tried to keep my blog dedicated to adoption stuff so those who are interested in the process don't have to wade through stuff they don't really care about. But today I thought I would let you in on what we've been up to this summer. 

We really didn't have much of a summer as Stephen started a new job in a year-round school in Cedar Rapids. He is now the Instructional Coach at Polk Elementary just minutes from my office. I am loving the lesser drive time and he has enjoyed the new challenge. He's already been in session for a month or so. He will be getting an "intercession break" the last 2 weeks of September. His job as best as I can describe it is coaching teachers on new instructional initiatives the district wants implemented in the classroom. He still works with kids sometimes but typically in smaller groups. He is always doing something different and spends a lot of time emailing and coordinating different things. The nice thing about Polk is there are a lot of kids there who look more like Lydie and Samson. He's come home with some very cute stories and it's been a nice change for him to be in a more diverse building. 

A couple weeks ago my whole family got together to celebrate my mom's 60th birthday. It was definitely a highlight of the summer. My sister was able to fly home and surprise mom and spend a few days here which was a treat. Mom had nearly 4 days of one surprise after the next and I think by the end of it she was a little overwhelmed! We fished, got pedicures, had a campfire, talked, laughed, sang together, swam, ate and loved on our beautiful mama! It was so wonderful. I always have a hard time recovering after times like those. It's hard to get back to reality and the daily grind. It's times like those that you wish time would stand still for a little while. 

On Tuesday, August 16th, Stephen and I traveled to the Iowa State Fair with his parents so the Probert Farm could be honored as a Heritage Farm. This means the farm has been in the family for 150 years. It was a wonderful honor for the Proberts and I was so proud to be a part of it. Of course, when you go to the fair, you have to eat! And boy did we eat! 





At the end of June/first part of July Stephen and I took a vacation to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. We drove to Chicago and caught a Cubs game then drove up the eastern side of Lake Michigan to Mackinac Island. We discovered on our trip the most of our vacations have always been to visit family members and this was the first time we were actually just vacationing as just the two of us. We knew this may be the last chance before the kids come and that's okay! The weather was perfect and we had a great time together. It was a healing time for us as the last school year had been pretty rough on Stephen. He had also taken some classes after school had ended and this was the only time we had before he had to start at his new school. 








And of course, summer is never complete without volleyball. Every Thursday night we piled into the Reed van and  headed up to St. Lucas (one hour north of Independence) and played. On the last night of tournament play (we won our bracket!) Stephen's elbow caught my forehead and the bridge of my nose. For a split second I was afraid my nose had broken. Thankfully it wasn't and I didn't even get a black eye! 

It was a great summer. Our last summer of freedom so to speak! But we have had 14+ summers of just the two of us, time for a new chapter. I'm ready!

Friday, August 12, 2011

New pictures of Lydie & Samson

Stephen and I have been quite busy with family activities, volleyball tournaments and work. It's so nice to come home after a day of work and find new pictures and updates! Patrick took these pictures for us. This is what he said:


Hello! I hope that you are doing well and surviving the heat wave in Iowa. I have attached several pictures of your beautiful children. They are both doing well. Lydie has been transformed into a very active toddler since I last saw her. She was happy and very active. You will have your hands full to say the least.

Samson was also good. He’s looking a little rough after undergoing a bout of Mulluscum. However, please keep in mind that all children in orphanages get Mulluscum and it goes away in a matter of a couple of months. There are rarely any permanent discolorations or scarring from it. Both of my children had Mulluscum and they have no visible marks from it.









Friday, July 29, 2011

Moving along

I am shocked at how fast this is all happening. We received word today that our paperwork is in 2nd legal. It has exited Parquet (district attorney) and has entered the courts process. Generally 2nd legal takes approximately 4 months. After 2nd legal is complete, the US side of things kicks in.

The Lord has been gracious to us. Many families have had just as much faith as we have and waited 3 years for the children to come home. I don't understand it, but I am thankful. Lydie and Samson will be home before we know it!


We received pictures from our friends who visited their children this past week. I was shocked to see Samson's head completely bald! He also has a terrible case of molluscum on the right side of his face right now. Our friends said Samson likes to crawl crossing his legs. Cute!  I don't know how many pictures we have of Lydie sleeping, but here's another one.

Monday, July 25, 2011

Prayer request

There are several adoptive families back in Haiti again. New adoptive families are filing their I-600's like we did back in March and some of our March traveling companions are back there as well. We heard that one of the new adoptive families found out their little 2-year-old Haitian boy has leukemia.  Patrick (from our adoption agency) is trying to get a hospital in the US to sponsor him so that he can come home to get treatment. Please pray that hearts are moved and his VISA is granted to get him here. We're not sure if this little boy is from Maison or not. I can't imagine hearing that kind of news while visiting your child for the first time.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

If you want paperwork to move...

Just blog about how frustrated you are that it doesn't feel like anything is moving! We received this email today from our adoption agency.


Hi Stephen and Naomi,

I just wanted to let you know that we received word it is expected your dossier (along with both kiddos) will be out of Parquet next week!  That means that we’re moving closer to the time when the Adoption Decree is issued!  

We will of course let you know when we receive final confirmation, and will let you know the next steps then.  Hopefully we’ll be in touch soon!  
~Kim

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Parquet?

I'm trying to be as patient as possible, but it's getting difficult! I read a blog today that stated somebody got out of Parquet in 2 weeks! Yikes! I don't even know how that's possible. It's easy to get swept up in rumors and other people's news when you don't have any news of your own. We're hoping to hear something very soon. Here's a refresher on what Parquet is all about:

Parquet Court
The 'step' we refer to as Parquet court is actually a very complex series of steps and processes involving multiple offices and repeated trips between them. 

  1. Attorney addresses a Request for Judgment to the Chief Justice of Parquet Court
  2. Birth parents are interviewed in Parquet Court
  3. Parquet Court signs off on "approval judgement for adoption
  4. Facilitator takes approval to DGI for stamp of authorization
  5. Back to Parquet for enforcement of the approval judgement
  6. Authorization and redaction from the Civil Registrar Officer for legal Adoption Decree
  7. Verification in Parquet of the adoption documents by the Civil Registrar before signing the adoption decree
  8. First Legalization of the Adoption Decree, in Parquet Court
  9. Second Legalization of the Adoption Decree, at the Ministry of Justice
  10. Third Legalization of the Adoption Decree, at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs
  11. Obtain attestation of Adoption Decree from the National Archives